When EQ bright

How to manage anger

One of my friend who learn AIKIDO take a train one day. He saw the man who really drunk and try to beat other passenjers. Then. He thought I have to beat that man before some one injured by him. However he remind his teacher's words "You cannot use AIKIDO as a way for battle. Someone who have comppettive heart is failuer at that time."

but he thought

this is the very situation for my AIKIDO halp people!!

Drunk man realize him. " What, he is a forigner! I should teach Japnese politeness."

Drunk man close to him to beat, them, Bright voice out of place sounds around.

It's like bumping into some old friends. As drank man look back, there is an old man smile to drank man and said " come here".

Drank man said " No way, I don' t wanna talk with you.", " What did you drink?" an old man reply. " Sake!! It's not your buisiness." "Yeah sake,, sounds good, but actually I really like sake, often with my wife, my wife will be 76, and,," The old man continued to speak. Then the emotion of drank man become softer and softer.

The old man said " Do you have a great wife, don't you?"

A drank man said" yes, but, she died..."

Drank man started cring and taling abou himself, he lost wife, lose home, lost work, he said " I am miserable."  An old man was hearing that story.

Point of dealing with anger person is

1. Distract that person person's consiousness

2.Symphasize emotion and point of view of that person

3. make interest in the story whitch make more productive emotion